Aloha! I’m Nancy Arcayna, an author, certified life coach, Reiki Master, energy lightworker, essential oils educator, and licensed minister. My mission is to help you awaken to your fullest potential through healing, guidance, and self-discovery.
Whether you’re seeking emotional renewal, energy alignment, personalized coaching, or a heartfelt wedding ceremony, I’m here to support your journey toward a more extraordinary life.
I believe healing is both sacred and personal. My path has unfolded through introspection, spiritual exploration, and years of listening to others as both a journalist and a seeker.
My background in storytelling helped me see that every struggle holds wisdom. This understanding led me to energy work, coaching, and a commitment to helping others heal and grow.
I’ve walked through heartbreak, transformation, and renewal. The tools I now share—Reiki, coaching, essential oils—are not just learned but lived.
Based on the island of Oahu, I find peace in the ocean and purpose in guiding others. Whether through a session, ceremony, or shared moment, I aim to create space for healing and connection.
Explore personalized tools for self-love, mindset shifts, and clarity. Through one-on-one coaching, I’ll guide you with intuitive support and spiritual techniques designed to help you break through limiting beliefs, reconnect with your inner voice, and align with your highest self. Together, we’ll create space for growth, healing, and renewed confidence in your life path.
Choose Reiki, Distance Healing, Access Bars®, or a customized session. These non-invasive, deeply restorative practices help balance your energy, reduce stress, and promote emotional and physical well-being. Whether you’re healing from trauma, feeling energetically blocked, or simply need a reset, I offer a safe, nurturing space to support your transformation.
Learn how to integrate doTERRA’s natural products into your lifestyle. I’ll help you discover essential oils that align with your wellness goals—whether it’s relaxation, focus, immunity, or emotional balance. From simple routines to powerful blends, these oils offer everyday support that’s both practical and empowering for you and your family.
I’ll help design a meaningful ceremony that celebrates your love. As a licensed minister, I create customized wedding experiences that reflect your story, values, and vision—spiritual, traditional, or non-religious. I also offer vow renewals and elopement ceremonies, making your special moment feel heartfelt, intentional, and uniquely yours.
Nancy’s books have received glowing reviews for their honesty, emotional depth, and relatable storytelling. Readers are drawn to her ability to turn personal adversity into empowering lessons, offering comfort and inspiration to those navigating their own paths. Each page reflects her gift for writing with vulnerability, warmth, and a genuine desire to help others heal.
A Memoir of Heartbreak, Surrender, and Self-Love
After leaving her island home of 30 years for love, Nancy Arcayna returned heartbroken, without a home, a job, or a relationship. What followed was a journey from rock bottom to radical self-acceptance.
Through raw and personal accounts, Nancy shares how she faced pain, betrayal, and despair, then found healing through self-compassion, spiritual growth, and inner trust.
This memoir is more than a story—it’s a guide for anyone ready to release the past and begin a passionate love affair with themselves.
What if getting lost was the only way to find yourself?
In this heartfelt tale, Nancy Arcayna invites you on a transformative journey from burnout to breakthrough. After years of people-pleasing, perfectionism and going through the motions, she reached a breaking point and chose to walk away from a life that no longer felt like her own.
Trading comfort for courage, Nancy set off on a solo adventure around the globe, hoping to reconnect with the parts of herself she had long silenced. From the lush jungles of Costa Rica to the serene temples of Southeast Asia, her path wasn’t always easy but it was honest, raw and real.
Through moments of fear, laughter, healing and unexpected grace, Checked Out to Checked In is a vulnerable and empowering exploration of what happens when you stop living for others and start listening to the wisdom within.
This is not just a travel story. It’s an invitation to rediscover who you are by turning inward and honoring the voice you’ve long ignored.